My personal preference is that I want a woman with curves, not just bones and sex organs. But yea it could just be laziness like what you are saying. It's an attempt to sugar coat what the real deal is. If you are very flexible curvy woman, you can also bend over in half and grab your ankles or put your hands flat on the floor and then he can enter you from the back. I find your definition of "real men" a bit unusual, to put it mildly. Not sure if you have seen them or not but their bodies look identical to my 13 year of niece.
Can a fat woman ever make a thin man happy?
I absolutely will not lower my standards just to be able to be with a man and I don't expect the same in return. Our society is toxic and has been rapidly declining. Take guys from the industry and look at their partners. Owners share snaps of their furry friends taking over the sofa in a contest to find the Good luck, and any followers with advice, please feel free to voice your advice: