Maybe one day God will bless me in a marriage and that would be incredible but I would hope just meeting a few times would help to determine if both were interested to "court" Most importantly, to finish strong. Before even talking to the girl about his feelings or asking her out, he should first talk with her dad or any other male Christian leaders in her life. Maybe you just want to have some fun for a bit or maybe you want marriage. This is in many cases, a very dangerous practice disguised as a perfect formula for a happy and successful marriage. Of course I'm praying over this and seeking God's guidance for my life.
This topic certainly needs to be addressed more.
Courting vs Dating (Top 4 differences between courtship and dating)
By this time, she looses respect and hope that he will change. Trust God in all things. The two must be one in Christ. The first component to courtship is spiritual. If you have not committed to being boyfriend and girlfriend, usually it is not expected that other dates with other people will not happen. These approaches all hinder true intimacy.